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For those of you who celebrate Christmas, HAPPY XMAS. I hope you have the loveliest one. For those of you who don’t, hoping that 2024 comes to an end in the best possible way for you.
This week, as we approach 2025, I want to share some of my best thoughts on designing the greatest year of your life. So, below, (and in the Changing Minds Podcast) I walk you through the steps you need to take to build the best year possible. Hope you find it helpful.
Also, want to let you that there won’t be a podcast or newsletter next week but will be back with a bang on 6th January!
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Design Your Best Year: A Guide to Making the Next 12 Months Truly Transformative
Estimated reading time: 5 minutes 52 seconds
Imagine the coming year unfolding exactly as you wish—every goal achieved, every challenge conquered, and every dream realized. As we approach a new year, many people reflect on their past and look to the future, eager to set goals and create the life they’ve always wanted. This isn’t just about making New Year’s resolutions that fade by February; it’s about designing a strategic, flexible plan that propels you toward the most extraordinary year of your life.
In this edition of Inner Propaganda, we’ll explore a powerful framework for setting goals and anticipating obstacles so you can truly lead your life by design. You’ll learn how to set meaningful objectives, anticipate potential challenges, and adopt the mindset that will help you thrive in the face of adversity.
Triggering the Possibilities: Start with a Vision
To build an exceptional year, begin by envisioning what success looks like in different areas of your life. Start with a simple question:
What if everything went exactly the way you want it to?
Imagine your personal life thriving—your relationships, health, and social life all flourishing. Picture your career hitting new heights, your finances stronger than ever, and your hobbies more fulfilling.
By visualizing these outcomes, you’re not just daydreaming; you’re setting up mental “North Stars” that will guide you toward your goals. Whether it’s seeing yourself happier and healthier, surrounded by supportive friends, or excelling in a career you love, let these images fuel your ambition and ignite the brainstorming process for your goal-setting journey.
The Three Essential Questions for Your Future
To set goals that truly resonate with you, it’s important to answer three key questions:
What kind of life do you want to live?
Think beyond material success—consider what truly matters to you. What kind of daily experiences would bring you joy and fulfillment?
Who do you want to be?
Define the type of person you aspire to become. What behaviors, habits, and values would this person embody?
What does an ideal day look like for you?
Break this down into three scenarios: a workday, a day off, and a vacation day. Visualize what each ideal day would involve, from activities to interactions, to align your lifestyle with your aspirations.
This exercise will give you a deeper understanding of your values, desires, and priorities, setting the foundation for your goal-setting process.
The LEAD Your Life Design System
Now that you’ve explored your vision, it’s time to turn those ideas into actionable goals using the LEAD Your Life Design System—a framework I built that categorizes your goals into four key areas:
1. Lifestyle Goals
These are habits you want to establish as part of your daily routine. Whether it’s practicing mindfulness, exercising regularly, or setting aside time for creative pursuits, lifestyle goals are about making positive behaviors second nature.
Action Step: Identify five lifestyle habits you want to adopt and plan how to integrate them into your routine throughout the year.
2. Experience Goals
These are your bucket list goals—things you’ve always wanted to do, like traveling to a new destination, attending a special event, or trying an extreme sport.
Action Step: Choose one to three experience goals that excite you. Determine when you’ll accomplish them and what steps you need to take to make them happen.
3. Achievement Goals
Achievement goals are specific milestones you want to reach, such as earning a promotion, saving a certain amount of money, or completing a marathon.
Action Step: Set five measurable achievement goals with clear criteria for success. Break each goal into smaller milestones to track your progress.
4. Development Goals
These involve acquiring new skills or knowledge, like learning a language or mastering a software program.
Action Step: Identify three development goals for the year. Outline the resources and time commitments required to reach a desired level of proficiency.
Plan Your Path to Success
With your goals defined, map out a timeline for achieving them.
Break down the year into quarters and outline where you need to be at the end of each quarter to stay on track.
For example:
Q1 (January-March): Focus on establishing one new lifestyle habit and begin saving for an experience goal.
Q2 (April-June): Aim to hit the halfway mark of a major achievement goal and make steady progress on a development goal.
Q3 (July-September): Plan your experience goal and prepare for any major work-related objectives.
Q4 (October-December): Wrap up remaining goals, celebrate your achievements, and evaluate your progress to prepare for the next year.
By structuring your year in this way, you set realistic expectations and maintain a steady pace toward your targets. Use tools like habit-tracking apps or planners to keep yourself accountable.
Preparing for Challenges: Anticipate and Adapt
It’s not just about planning for success; it’s also about preparing for the inevitable obstacles that may arise. There are three types of challenges to consider:
Black Swan Events
These are unpredictable events, like a sudden illness or economic downturn, that have a significant impact.
When they happen, adjust your goals and expectations quickly to accommodate the new reality.
White Swan Events
These are foreseeable challenges, such as scheduled holidays or known busy periods at work.
Plan for them in advance, setting realistic timelines and goals that account for these events.
Recurring Obstacles
Consider past setbacks or current issues that could reoccur.
Develop new strategies to handle recurring challenges more effectively.
Techniques such as pre-mortems, where you imagine yourself at the end of the year looking back at what went wrong, can help you identify potential pitfalls.
Conversely, pre-parades (imagining everything going perfectly) can highlight the actions needed for success. Use these techniques to refine your strategy and stay ahead of problems.
Motivation vs. Discipline: The Real Key to Consistency
Many people start the year highly motivated, only to see that motivation wane over time. This is where discipline comes in. While motivation helps you get started, discipline keeps you going. It’s about building routines that you follow regardless of how you feel.
Develop systems that make it easy to stay disciplined, such as setting specific times for activities or rewarding yourself for meeting smaller milestones.
The more disciplined you become, the less you’ll need to rely on motivation. When challenges arise, it’s your discipline that will carry you through.
The Mindset of Success: Gratitude and Growth
A positive mindset can significantly impact your ability to achieve your goals. Train your brain to focus on what’s good in your life by practicing gratitude regularly. By doing so, you’ll shift your attention away from scarcity and comparison and toward abundance and growth.
Make gratitude a daily habit. Reflect on three things you’re grateful for each morning to start your day with a positive outlook.
When you combine this mindset with strategic planning and disciplined action, you’ll set yourself up for a year that’s not just productive but transformative.
Create Your Best Year Yet
You can’t control every twist and turn life throws at you, but you can control your preparation, mindset, and actions. By setting clear goals, anticipating challenges, and building disciplined habits, you stack the odds in your favor. The coming year can indeed be the greatest of your life if you commit to designing it that way.
Take ownership of your journey, demand more from yourself, and stay adaptable in the face of setbacks. With the LEAD Your Life Design System and the strategies outlined here, you’re not just hoping for a good year—you’re creating it.
For more details, check out the full episode on the Changing Minds Podcast here.
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The Brain Prompt
Start with one habit. Choose one lifestyle goal to focus on for the first month of the year. Make this habit a daily priority and track your progress. Once it feels natural, add a second habit to your routine. Build momentum gradually to ensure lasting change.
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Cheers,
Owen.
